A couple sits in front of the camera and discusses their intimate moments with Jessica Drake as Kelly Shibari is behind the camera directing the activities on-screen. The couple laughs, giggles and get really, really honest.
I’m watching Jessica Drake’s Guide to Wicked Sex: Plus Size, a collaborative educational DVD with plus-size super star Kelly Shibari. I feel like’m watching a documentary (okay, a pretty steamy, sexy documentary) about my own life and relationships. Here’s the thing: I’m not actually plus size. I was sure I wouldn’t relate too much to the DVD, but the actors, both professional performers and real-life couples, are talking about the very same issues I have: Intimacy, self-awareness, confidence, self-esteem, trust and honesty. While my weight has fluctuated my whole life, I have faced these issues thinking I was very much alone. Jessica Drake and Kelly Shibari are telling me I am not, and that body confidence is an issue that plagues all of us, regardless of size, gender or sexual preference. Cue a BIG SIGH of relief.
Kelly Shibari is known for being a champion of body confidence and sexual comfort and enjoyment – paired up with sex-ed queen Jessica Drake, the two are unstoppable! This educational DVD pairs both sex appeal and cold-hard facts on the how-to’s of sex and relationships, for both plus-size and non-plus-size viewers. Personally speaking, the biggest take-away I found from the DVD were the tools and tactics the couples engage in on screen to learn different ways of expressing themselves sexually, while also learning the comfort levels of their partners.
Jessica Drake’s Guide to Wicked Sex: Plus Size with Kelly Shibari teaches viewers to advocate for themselves while loving their bodies and enjoying sex. While the DVD labels itself with a focus on ‘Plus-Size,’ the lessons therein are transferrable to couples of all types, sizes, genders and orientations. To sweeten the deal, Jessica and Kelly added three hardcore porn scenes at the end of the education so you can see these tips in action (pun intended). Kelly offers a narration of the scenes with an optional voice-over that guides the viewer through the plus-size lovemaking experience, for sizing up on your sex-education.
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