Casual rape is something that happens to people all the time, but it’s hard to call it what it is. We often make excuses that we drank too much, or we were already having sex so we couldn’t tell them to stop. But these are victim blaming tactics, not reasons why it’s your fault. Consensual sex is an enthusiastic yes, with the option to stop at any time. If you’re too drunk or high to make a decision, you’re not able to consent. Make sure you learn what consensual sex looks like so that you and your partner/s are on the same page.
What does consensual sex look like to you? Let us know in the comments below!